I will admit I watch a lot of TV. I watch it to unwind and relax, but I also use it to learn and discover new things. Recently I stumbled upon a PBS series called “9 Months That Made You.” I am one episode in and hooked!
Now I know by being a doula and childbirth educator that this show is right up my alley. I mean it is kind of like continuing education for my work! But if you are growing a human in your body currently, or did grow one, or know someone who grew one, or if you grew in someone’s body, then this show is a perfect fit!
So in the first episode they break down what it is like for a baby to grow beginning with the moment of conception. It then goes on to describe what happens in hours! And then days and weeks. The detailed things they discuss is amazing. How much of our lives that is determined by the processes in the first few weeks is astonishing!
Within the program different families from around the globe are highlighted to show their genetic differences. These differences are due to developmental things that can happen during the time period of growth that they are focused in on in the episode. The first episode even features a scientist studying living a long life and how it may be determined while you are still in the womb!
So yes I am a geek when it comes to science and babies. I can’t wait to finish the series. It really celebrates the variances in humanity. So if you are looking to add something to your queue and you are into learning check out this PBS series on Netflix. You can find out more about it here: https://www.pbs.org/show/9-months-made-you/
I can’t wait to see what new information I learn next!
Birth plans, birth wishes, birth preferences, or whatever you prefer to call it can be a useful tool. The work of going through what is important to you and your partner in your birth is likely the best part of creating a birth plan, no matter if you actually print it out.
Birth wishlists can be a great way to give the care team you are working with an idea of the ideal birth you hoped for. This way if paths stray from what you envisioned the staff can help keep it as close to your ideal as possible.
What you can include in your plan:
Basic information: your name, partner’s name or support person’s name, doula’s name, important phone numbers, your care provider’s name
Important items to know about the birthing person: allergies, or medical conditions the staff should be reminded of
Ideals for copingand what is important to you in early and active labor: After going through options in birth include those that really stand out to you as what you hope for in this birth.
Placenta plans: If choosing placenta encapsulation services it is a good idea to have this on your birth preferences sheet as a reminder. Also mentioning if you intend to use a cord blood banking service.
Cesarean birth preferences: items like clear drapes used, support people you want present, skin to skin if possible after birth.
Feeding preferences: it is nice to note if you are planning on breastfeeding, or formula feeding, or some combination
A smart idea is to write a long detailed plan for yourself that goes through all the options and ideals you have. Then that plan is for you. Trim and omit the unnecessary items to create a simpler plan to hand in to your birth staff. Creature comforts like dim lighting, do not need to be on your staff’s plan.
Pro-tips for birth plans
Keep it simple! Bullet points and simple statements to convey your wants is ideal. Also birth plans should not be so detailed you are telling your provider and staff how to do their job. Some plans simply state one item, for example “We would prefer open communication throughout the entire process.”
Be positive! Use phrases like “we prefer x,y,z” instead of “NO X,Y,Z!”
Thank the staff! Your care providers and nurses want you to have a lovely experience. They work hard and long shifts. Tell them how excited you are to be at that facility with the wonderful staff you have selected.
Make it fun! Say what?! If you can find a way to make it funny, or light, or cute in some way, the staff will enjoy reading it. Some clients in the past have made it sports themed, or added a funny comic. One couple made it look like a movie poster!
When making your birth wishes list explore all the things you envision or hope for. It is a great activity to get you thinking about the experience you’d like. A place you can learn about your birthing options is through a childbirth education course. Check out Metro Detroit Doula Service’s offerings today!
It doesn’t matter how far along you are or how many kids you have. There is always new information coming out regarding pregnancy, labor help, birth prep – however you want to address it. If you have found yourself wondering, what do I need to know about labor and delivery?… or what is happening to my body in labor? There is a resource for you.
Pregnancy help can be found in all types of media. You have choices with so many outlets in our digital world like podcasts, websites, etc… but some of you may want to simply hold a book in your hands while you soak in the experiences and knowledge to help you along this far-out journey!
Keep reading for our list of helpful books for birth:
The Birth Partner by Penny Simkin
This is a great book for support partners giving guidance on the ins and outs of labor.
With it’s objective, factual approach it sheds light on all sides of birth, examining the risks, benefits, and alternatives – our B.R.A.I.N blog explains this more in depth – and presenting both sides of options including natural and medicinal alike.
It finishes off with sections regarding the postpartum period.
Birthing From Within by Pam England
If you like art and lean a bit more toward the holistic or “crunchy” side of life, this book may be just the one for you.
You will find positive birth stories galore!
This book’s approach is about finding strength in birth, viewing birth as a self-discovery, and acceptance of your birth outcome however it needs to unfold.
There is also highlight help for new parent and marriage adjustments after baby arrives.
Mama Natural Week-by-Week Guide to Pregnancy and Childbirth by Genevieve Howland
It’s great to see what is happening inward as you grow outward! As it says in it’s title this is a weekly reference guide with ideas for To-Do Lists as you move along in pregnancy.
Genevieve also touches on how to form your birth-team, giving a shout-out to our certifying and training organization ProDoula!
She also dives into nourishment, your environment, and a number of newborn topics.
If you haven’t visited her resourceful website, check it out.
Birth Wisdom Yoga Remedies & Journal by Julia Piazza
Who doesn’t want to feel as comfortable they can in pregnancy?! Prenatal yoga is a wonderful way to create some peaceful space for you and baby.
This book is introduced by both a midwife and an obstetrician, is broken into trimesters (including ailments & solutions), and provides you with 30- & 60-minute flows that you can do at home, when you can’t make it out to a class at Earthside Prenatal Yoga with our friend & fellow boss babe, Lori.
We were also delighted to find pelvic health floor information highlighted, a great bonus one of our very own team members, Ashley Gammon would much appreciate.
Ina May’s Guide to Childbirth by Ina May Gaskin
With 30+ years of experience, Ina May is extremely well known throughout the natural birth community and is a treasure chest of information with her focus on unmedicated birth.
You will find absolute confidence in the physiological process of birth, a variety of topics including the best ways to work with your doctor, and a collection of positive birth stories throughout.
Natural Hospital Birth by Cynthia Gabriel
Many families prefer to be as natural as possible in delivery with an open mind to medical options when necessary.
That means being in a hospital for delivery with all options available while having the support of a provider who views birth the same as you. We can not stress the importance of this enough – it is more important than the distance to the hospital and the types of tiles on the walls.
This book helps you to be proactive in pregnancy so that you don’t have to be reactive in labor, giving you the best of both worlds.
Dive into some of the best books on birth around!
It’s easy to pick one of these titles up, just throw it in your cart – a little holiday gift for yourself – while you are cruising on Amazon. Go on! You deserve it. There may even be an audio version you can download to listen to while you are driving or getting things done around the house. However, you do it – enjoy this adventure of growing your family.
Of course, there is a collection of other childbirth books out there. If you have a favorite that wasn’t listed, we’d love hearing about it – please share it with us in the comments below or reach out to us for more information.